THOUGH THIS may be a time when you feel you have less control over your life than ever before, planning ahead may help you regain some sense of control. Information in this section will help you ensure your final wishes will be honored and treatment will be on your terms. As you consider your family, we’ve included tool kits you can use to provide them with important information about your affairs. But you will be providing them with more than information, you will provide them a sense of peace by knowing they’ve honored your wishes.